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Any advice on dealing with members who won't be quiet?

Last post 05-14-2008, 7:11 PM by L-Miguel. 26 replies.
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  •  03-17-2008, 4:40 PM 25458 in reply to 25057

    Re: Any advice on dealing with members who won't be quiet?

    rich:
    penalty pressups...at least 20/30 for everybody if someone...yawns, hands on hips, stands still between tracks, talks, phone rings
     
    do that a few times and the rest of the class will tell them to shut up!
     
    it works well in our combat class :)

     

    Gee, that sounds like a fun class. 

  •  03-17-2008, 6:27 PM 25469 in reply to 25458

    Re: Any advice on dealing with members who won't be quiet?

    As a participant, I have to say that if I went to a class where everybody was made to do extra push-ups because someone talked or their phone rang, I would never go back to that class.

    Yes, it's annoying if someone talks but at the end of the day, we're paying to be there, so please treat us with respect.  I go to classes to work hard and to have fun, not to be treated like I was back in primary school.

     

  •  03-19-2008, 1:36 PM 25628 in reply to 25469

    Re: Any advice on dealing with members who won't be quiet?

    As a participant, I feel that it's very rude to talk while the instructor is trying to teach. Anyone that's ever taught any type of class or done public speaking knows how horrible it feels when people aren't paying attention. It's also not fair to the other students that are distracted by the people that are chatting.

     People are paying to receive a good workout, not to talk. If they want to socialize, they can go on the treadmill and get some cardio and talk at the same time. I don't buy the "I'm paying so I can do whatever I want." You're paying for a service, but you're not going to get good service if you're not doing your part as well.

  •  03-19-2008, 3:26 PM 25634 in reply to 25628

    Re: Any advice on dealing with members who won't be quiet?

    mirramar, I agree with you. I hate it if people talk all the way through classes.  I just meant that punishing them and the rest of the class with extra push-ups isn't the way to deal with it.  I don't think that I can do whatever I want because I'm paying for the class but I think that does entitle me to be treated like an adult and not a schoolkid.
  •  03-19-2008, 7:39 PM 25652 in reply to 25634

    Re: Any advice on dealing with members who won't be quiet?

    Or like you're on a football team.  Or in basic training.  He did say it works in Combat, which seems to have more of that feel to it.  I'm not saying it's an approach that should be used, or used in Step.  But I read it as similar to a couple of my immediate responses, i.e. thought did cross my mind....wouldn't act on it....but the idea that you have to actually remind an adult that she or he is not the center of the universe is so surprising.......

    So how would you handle the situation as the instructor?  If you ignore it, how are you taking care of the other participants in the class?  You've got a class full of people who paid their money, and those around the talkers are hating it (to use your expression).  What do you do that is effective?

    Just like Tim's description of a member taking off her shoes during a class and continuing.....some of these choices that participants make are surprising to me.  Surprising not in a good way.  Because, in all honesty, and depending on where I am mentally that day, if I think you're being disrespectful to me and to other participants and adversely affecting the workout that my class participants have paid to get, it is within me to address it right then and there.  I've already said most days I'd be ready mentally to handle it easily during class, and/or if it seemed appropriate privately with the oblivious ones after the class.  But, I'm human, so I'm trying to prepare for those other days.

    So, this kind of discussion...with suggestions of how to handle it...is helpful to provide ideas for addressing the disruption, so the addressing of it leads to a successful outcome for the maximum number of people.

  •  03-20-2008, 3:19 AM 25661 in reply to 25634

    Re: Any advice on dealing with members who won't be quiet?

    you can sell the penalty pressups in a fun way you know!!!

    it doesnt have to be sergeant  major army style


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  •  03-20-2008, 5:39 AM 25663 in reply to 25458

    Re: Any advice on dealing with members who won't be quiet?

    I say something like "if you can talk you're not working hard enough"  or "you can tell if you're in the right zone because you don't even want to talk."
  •  03-26-2008, 1:12 PM 25960 in reply to 25057

    Re: Any advice on dealing with members who won't be quiet?

    If they are really chatty, I'll say something like "ok, social hour over, lets work" that works.  I once also sat there in between tracks (pump) and said "the building is on fire, everyone run".  I think two ladies heard me and laughed.  Seriously, though I talk to them after class if its being disruptive to other members or me tryiing to teach.

     

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  •  04-28-2008, 7:46 PM 28743 in reply to 24113

    Re: Any advice on dealing with members who won't be quiet?

    PUSH UPS!!!!

    haha idk maybe you can give that to them but try talking to them before or after class and explain to them that their talking in class is distracting to you and the other participants. might, might not work but it's woth a shot.

  •  05-09-2008, 12:05 PM 29423 in reply to 24113

    Re: Any advice on dealing with members who won't be quiet?

    Where we teach, push-ups is the voluntary "punishment" for instructor error, and the class is familiar with that.  So a subtle push-up joke to the chatterboxes should make the point. 

    Or...try the half turn/dirty look combo.

  •  05-10-2008, 8:21 PM 29478 in reply to 29423

    Re: Any advice on dealing with members who won't be quiet?

    I try to go the 'tough love/humor' approach.  I like to say  "take the chit chat outside.  If you're in the room you're moving.  I'm moving.  You're moving."

    the participants all know that I'm looking out for their best interests and that the class needs to proceed without their chatter. 

  •  05-14-2008, 7:11 PM 29677 in reply to 24158

    Re: Any advice on dealing with members who won't be quiet?

    ahahahah great tips!!!

     i have the same problem teaching body combat, which seems impossible, but it does happen, some people just stop their work out and start talking, so i've been pretty much doing everything i can to stop them from stopping and start talking, and when i start getting really mad and frustrated i put on some crazy hard tracks which drives them crazy, everytime they see me going to the studio they get so scared! ahahah but i know they love it!
     

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